Allow Me To ReIntroduce Myself...

I am learning more about myself through social media. Tomorrow is my first day at my new marketing/PR job. I have learned so much from my new friends on Twitter and YouTube. Marketing and Public Relations is all about product placement. Right now, I am the product. Rayven Victori is a brand in and of itself. For the past few years, I was placing myself in the wrong situations, environments, and around the wrong people. People who weren't here for me; some wanted to use me others wanted to abuse me. I am ready to put Rayven Victori right where she belongs...

Have you ever stopped to think about how much effort you but into your number one brand? Have you ever wondered why you were attracting the wrong mates? friends? lovers? Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered if the outside world could see the awesomeness that you see?

The past week has taught me a lot about myself. I learned how to spot real friends from the fakes...dependable mates from the losers...passionate lovers from the lames. Most importantly, I learned how to trust myself. Most of the time, you know when you make a bad decision. You don't need anyone to tap you on the shoulder just to say, "Hey idiot! That was a bad idea." You only need to listen and trust yourself.

I lied to myself so much that I thought it was the truth. I thought I needed her as a friend. I thought I needed him as a mate. I thought I couldn't sleep without him there to cuddle me. Those were all lies. And the biggest lie of all was the belief that I could never find another job. I had to stop lying to myself in order to find out what I was truly in search of. I had to trust myself to make the right decision. Leaving a job is much like leaving a spouse. There is pain, fear, insecurities, anger, and regret. But at some point in life you have to be bold and fearless and realize that you are you're greatest asset. Stand tall and feel secure in your own skin.

Please allow me to reintroduce myself...
Rayven Victori, number one brand